Wednesday, November 03, 2004

…WHEN WE LOVE SOMEONE…

Why we can’t forget someone, when we know they don’t love us?
Why keep them in our heart, when we know they won’t wanna have us?
Why let us miss our chances, when we can have them with others?
If we know they really don’t love us, just let them go now, not later…, for a longer relationship builds stronger emotions.

When we love someone we can feel the greatest joy we can ever know and we can hurt more than we can believe too.
When we love someone we should be ready to experience heartache and happiness at the same time.
That’s the reward and the risk...

Loving someone takes efforts.
To know our partner isn’t an easy way. It takes time to develop.
The key is how we could be able to communicate with each other, coz nobody could read anyone else’s mind. What happen today is we always presume that our partner knows what we think and feel. We think they know, but they don’t, at all...
We need time to develop the sense of each other’s thoughts.

Nowadays, everyday, everywhere, every moment, people fall in love. But, think... just how many of these relationships are self-sacrificing love and not just relationships which are formed only for the intense feeling of falling in love?

Let us truly understand love...
When we love someone, love them unconditionally, for who they are now, who they were in the past, and who they might be in the future...
Then, when we are very sure that we love someone, tell them how much we love them, coz we could be pass this chance only once...

I love this quote very much:
"Never be afraid to fall in love, it may hurt a lot, it may give you aches and pains, but if you don’t follow your heart, in the end you will cry even more for not giving love a chance."

Pesona Khayangan, 2 November 2004